All effort is ignorance. Force creates duality. Unconditional Love is Being Without Condition, allowing everything to be as it is.
Life happens in this moment only. Do you have the nerve to be here or do you force something into this moment that does not belong in it? If you wait for what shows up naturally you will always have what you need.
The universe blinks off and on zillions of times each moment, each time creating a brand new universe. But people put their lives together as close as possible to the previous moment so that it looks familiar, so that they can be safe and bored.
Stop telling the same old story. You keep recreating the same things because you can't let go. Being is scary. You never know where you may end up.